The world view in most Americans is that of individualism. The habit or principle of being independent and self-reliant. Independency and self-reliant are good, but our habits and principles about them are wrong.
Sometimes your position will cause you to be put into a bad position, or so it seems. But remember, your position is by design.
Simplifying your lives will help you to stay focused and serve the Lord more effectively. It will also help you in developing your relationship...
Every thought matters. It matters because your life is moving in the direction of your strongest thoughts.